T F 1. I have occasionally thought of divorce or wished that we were separated, usually after an argument or other incident.

T F 2. I have considered divorce or separation a few times other than during or shortly after a fight, although only in vague terms.

T F 3. I have thought specifically about separation or divorce. I have considered who would get the kids, how things would be divided, pros and cons of such actions, etc.

T F 4. I have discussed the question of divorce or separation with someone other than my spouse (trusted friend, psychologist, minister, etc).

T F 5. I have not suggested to my spouse that I wished to be divorced, separated, or rid of him/her.

T F 6. I have not made any specific plans to discuss separation or divorce with my spouse. I have not considered what I would say, etc.

T F 7. I have not discussed the issue of separation or divorce seriously or at length with my spouse.

T F 8. My spouse and I have separated. This is a trial separation.

T F 9. My spouse and I have separated. This is a permanent separation.

T F 10. Thoughts of separation or divorce occur to me very frequently, as often as once a week or more.

T F 11. I have made no inquires from nonprofessionals as to how long it takes to get a divorce, costs involved, etc.

T F 12. I have not consulted a lawyer or other legal aide about the matter.

T F 13. I have set up an independent bank account in my name as a measure of protecting my own interests.

T F 14. I have not contacted a lawyer to make preliminary plans for a divorce.

If you answered true for any questions 1-4 or 8-14, you may want to contact Cary Behavioral Health Care.